Book Writing

I'm so excited... I'm finally going to take the step of taking time away to start wrtiting a book. I think I know the direction I'm going to go with it, but it will be interesting to see what kind of momentum I get on that. I'm planning to spend about 4 days (generally uninterrupted) and see what happens. It's one of those "avoiding regrets" or avoiding the "what if's" in life. I don't have a bucket list, but if I did, attempting to write a book would be on it. The primary audience for the book will be myself and serve to capture my thoughts as a 37 year old trying to figure out this leadership thing.... it will be interesting to compare it to my thoughts in 5-10 years. Should be fun..... it's nice to think that even when life is crazy busy, it can work out to chase a dream now and then. What are your dreams that you have not been able to chase?

Ice Fishing

So, my son and I spent about 6 hours ice fishing on Friday with some friends who have moved out of town. The fishing sucked, but we had a great time. The bulk of the time was spent just playing cribbage and shooting the bull... but there was one moment of great excitement. One of the rattle reels starting turning and we all jumped up and ran to the corner hole. Mike set the hook and starting bringing it in... his son and I saw the Walleye swimming by a few feet below the ice... nice fish. Didn't take long, however, for the line to snap and off she went. Dang! For the next several hours, the disappointment of missing the fish would come back up to the surface and we'd all share our disappointment before moving back to another subject.

As I thought about the fun day we had, I thought about how the conversation would have been different if we would have caught a different fish after that and been able to bring it in. It's just like life... as things happen to us, we make mistakes, or "the big one gets away" in life, we become pre-occupied with that negative experience until the point at which something good replaces it. The old attage, "get back on the horse" is critical in my life... if something doesn't go the way I want, I will live with that memory... it is important for me to replace that negative memory with a new memory rather than allow that memory to dwell and fester.

I think I need to go ice fishing again soon.